Light weight is necessary for high speed
No, it really is not. Recall that the ICE 1 was almost as heavy as the Acela Express in terms of individual cars, the latter not being a high-speed train per se anyhow (but the former was built to operate at 175 mph, which it has done for several years).
Also, the lighter ICE 3 and ICE-T have been taken out of service due to wheel problems. (Besides, the 16-car ICE 3 trains were using quite a lot of energy in and of themselves; on top of that, the voltage and frequency of Germany's rail electrification is stepped down from commercial.)
What's necessary for high speed is building of infrastructure for support of such operations. So far, the USA has built nothing. The picture in the original post is exemplary of what Germany has.