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I do post on other forums, infrequently though, much like this one. If I have something to offer I will post, I frequent Kitforums the most often. I am a modeler for many years, with NYC as a focus, but I have expanded my interests to New England and south to Mid-Atlantic.
I grew up in North White Plains, my grandfathers, my father and two uncles worked on the Harlem division. My father was an electrician and took a job on the bridge after its completion that is how he came to get the drawings, he was also a modeler. The drawings have been sitting in a tube for the past 40 some years and they are a bit flimsy, but I believe I have read them correctly.
So to your questions, I do not remember the bridge in any color but silver, but I was gone from New York by 1966. The machinery or fixtures at either end of the tower platform I cannot answer at this point, I think I have an idea, but I need to look into it. I can comment on some of the other details you asked about. The mid tower sheaves were deemed "Auxiliary Counterweight Sheaves" with a sheave diameter about 6'. From the front elevation it shows cables (smaller than the main cables) attached to the top center of the span looping over the sheaves to smaller counterweights. This smaller counterweight is just out of sight in the picture you posted. From the sheave center point to the counter weight clevis the dimension is 5' 6", so you just missed it in the photograph. The weight measures 14' 5"" long and roughly measures out to 3' by 3' square and the.
The main cables are 2 3/8ths inch diameter; there are 16 of them on each end, ganged in fours and attached to flange plates.
General dimensions; overall tower height is just over 200', the main span is 340' in length and divided into 10 panels. The height difference of the span chord from the span ends to the center is about 18'. The control house you spoke of is three stories in height with various window locations on all three levels. Considering you are modeling one half of the bridge you might want to position the elevator shaft to the tower through the control house off to one side.
If you have more questions, let me know.
Bob