From an operations standpoint, a shove move is something that is accommodated for in procedure ... but to be honest, it doesn't matter if it's transit, freight, passenger ...
It's stressful.
In the freight (or passenger) world, you're running essentially blind, at restricted speed, with someone up front constantly calling your clearances for the track ahead, which depending on the depth of a curve, could be a very short distance.
I can't imagine transit is any different or less stressful. Nobody likes to do this.
It's always preferred to pull, if at all possible, over a push.
It's stressful.
In the freight (or passenger) world, you're running essentially blind, at restricted speed, with someone up front constantly calling your clearances for the track ahead, which depending on the depth of a curve, could be a very short distance.
I can't imagine transit is any different or less stressful. Nobody likes to do this.
It's always preferred to pull, if at all possible, over a push.